by Mary Franz | Apr 1, 2018 | Communication, Saying no
When was the last time you said “no” to someone? Was it hard? Did you stumble over what to say? Any feelings of irritability show up? Or guilt? Regardless of your mixed feelings, “no” was the right decision for you. Saying “no” to an opportunity, request...
by Mary Franz | Mar 4, 2018 | Communication, Feelings, Success
You adore your partner. Your partner is your true love, your one and only. Ahh. And– he (or she) makes you crazy. You’re not talking about a good crazy (you get that too). You’re talking about this-has-got-to-change-annoying-crazy. You’ve been...
by Mary Franz | Jan 22, 2018 | Anger, Communication
Are you trigger-happy? Here’s a story my dad shared from his childhood: Setting: Early evening on the farm. Mother stirring pot on kitchen stove-top. Younger Dad (7 yrs. old) enters the kitchen. 7 yr. old: “Mom—what’s for dinner?” Mom: ...
by Mary Franz | Jan 9, 2018 | Anger, Communication
How do you keep the lid of an old fashioned pressure cooker from exploding and spewing food all over the stovetop? You turn the heat off. Your anger, like the hissing sputtering pressure cooker, can be cooled off too by reducing the heat which keeps it at a...
by Mary Franz | Aug 20, 2017 | Business, Communication, Feedback, Leadership, Motivation
Can I give you some feedback? That’s a question which creates a little (or a lot) of stress for most of us… there’s just something about the inherent threat to safety we’re wired to feel as human beings… or you’ve had a bad feedback...
by Mary Franz | Aug 13, 2017 | Communication, Ego, Emotions, Feedback, Improving
Have you ever needed a boost to your ego after getting feedback? Ego– noun; A person’s sense of self-esteem or self-importance. ‘He needed a boost to his ego.’ (Oxford Living Dictionary) I remember being introduced to the first check mark of my life in...
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